Look Before You Leap

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I hate to admit this but here it is.  I was (am) a compulsive Facebook window shopper.  I think I spent more time looking at stuff I could buy on Facebook than scrolling through my friends’ posts.  It’s been such a good medium for selling and giving away our unwanted things that I realized some bargains could be found nearby.  

Like all shopping, I try to stick to things I actually need but it’s not easy.  Facebook, like any online marketing giant has algorithms to keep showing you things you might be interested in.  Let’s face it companies like Google and Facebook are just marketing wolves in sheep’s clothing.  For example, I recently decided that I really wanted, no needed, my own desk at home.  As soon as you search for “desk” in the Facebook marketplace or even view a couple of postings, it will suddenly seem like that’s the only thing anyone is selling.  Then, the algorithm says “hey, people who have searched for desks have also looked at these things” so it starts showing you some other stuff mixed in with the desks.  

Facebook Marketplace: come for the cheap desks; stay for the dining room sets and pool tables.  

I browse Facebook Marketplace the way people used to browse through shopping malls.  I went in thinking I could use a small desk but then think maybe we should replace our kitchen table too.  It’s easy to get out of control and start thinking you NEED all kinds of things.  

I had to get a grip and here’s how I did it.  One, I tried to visualize where another desk would go and the effort it would require to make it happen.  Two, I looked around the house to see if there was a way to use something I already have.

It turns out that we actually have 6 desks in our house.  That’s one for everyone including the baby.  The problem is that most of them are not being used because either their tops are covered or they are just in a bad spot.  Once I realized that, I decided we just need to clean and rearrange the ones not being used.  

I’ve mostly stopped looking but since I still haven’t cleaned off any of the desks and rearranged I still catch myself looking through the marketplace occasionally.  Every time I do I just ask myself again where it will go and remind myself that we have enough stuff.

So the next time you see a bargain or think you really need a new something-or-other, first take a look around at what you already have.  You just may realize you can easily make do with what you have.  

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